If you’ve been reading my newsletter for a while, you’ll know why being persuasive is so important to being successful online.
So here’s one quick hack to boosting your persuasiveness:
Be completely outcome independent.
You need to consciously create outcome independence by killing any emotional connection you have to whether someone tells you yes or no.
The more brutal, the better. I suggest a baseball bat. So do the Smashing Pumpkins.
By so doing, you’ll develop one of the most valuable assets that anyone can ever have: you don’t need anything from anyone.
You don’t care if they open your emails.
You don’t care if they boop your links and buy what you’re selling.
People are smart. They can smell neediness and desperation like a fart in an elevator.
Whatever curiosity that inspired them to connect with you will soon turn to disgust.
To find out how to apply this to your online business and turn that bad smell into a profitable income stream for yourself,
PS. If it’s not the Smashing Pumpkins, who is your favorite band? Leave a comment and let me know.